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Post by Deoband on May 10, 2023 17:09:48 GMT
VID-20230508-WA0005_128kbps.mp3 (657.27 KB) Or google: 3 types of abuse towards women in families by Nouman Ali Khan In the attached audio, Nouman Ali Khan quotes the first few words of an authentic narration while committing blatant deception by omitting the rest of the narration. In summary, he omits the following crucially relevant parts of the particular narration he is citing: 1) After Rasulullah ﷺ initially forbade hitting, the women went out of control. They became emboldened and started behaving badly with their husbands 2) When Umar (radiyallahu anhu) complained of this to Rasulullah ﷺ, he gave permission to hit by saying "Hit them". 3) After the Sahaba (radhiyallahu anhum) then dealt with their wives' misbehaviour by hitting them, many of the women went to complain to Rasulullah ﷺ 4) Rasulullah ﷺ did not then reinstate the prohibition. He only encouraged them not to, by saying that those who hit are not the best. Furthermore, he omits to mention that the permission is upheld by numerous other authentic Hadith and, most importantly and undeniably, the verse of the Qur'an.
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Post by Deoband on May 10, 2023 17:13:25 GMT
Rasulullah ﷺ said:
"Do not hit the maidservants of Allah."
So the women became emboldened, and their behaviour towards their husbands became bad. So Umar said:
"O Rasulullah, the women have become emboldened, and their behaviour towards their husbands have become bad ever since you forbade their hitting."
So Rasulullah ﷺ said:
"Hit them."
The men (i.e. the Sahabah) hit their wives that night and many women came (to Rasulullah ﷺ) complaining of the hitting. When it was morning, Rasulullah ﷺ said:
"Seventy (i.e. many) women have come to the family of Muhammad this night, complaining of the beating. By Allah, you will not find them to be the best of you."
Authentic Hadith recorded in Musannaf Abdur Razzaq, Sunan Abu Dawud, Saheeh Ibn Hibbaan, etc.
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللَّهُ» قَالَ: فَذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ، وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ، وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ مُنْذُ نَهَيْتَ عَنْ ضَرْبِهِنَّ قَالَ: فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «فَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ فَضَرَبَ النَّاسُ نِسَاءَهُمْ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ» فَأَتَى نِسَاءٌ كَثِيرٌ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ: «لَقَدْ طَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ اللَّيْلَةَ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً، كُلُهُنَّ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ، وَايْمُ اللَّهُ لَا تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ
صحيح
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Post by Deoband on May 25, 2023 16:13:59 GMT
COMMENT
(By Mufti Ahmad Sadeq Desai (Hafizullah))
The purpose of this rebuttal of the baseless view of the bogus ‘mufassir’ is not to encourage beating women, especially in this era when marriages are regarded as some sport to be broken and ruined on the basis of flimsy and haraam pretexts.
The need for refuting the bogus ‘mufassir’ is to assert the Truth by rejecting the falsehood which the crank propagates to appease modern women who are contaminated with lesbian tendencies.
While it is undeniable that it is not permissible to beat wives for gratifying one’s anger and the nafs, just as it is not permissible to beat children for such nafsaani reasons, the Qur’aanic fact is that it is permissible to beat them lightly when there is valid reason. Anyone who denies this Qur’aanic command loses his Imaan.
Allah Ta’ala states in the Qur’aan Majeed:
“Men are the rulers over women……….Regarding those women whose disobedience you fear, advise them (give them naseehat), separate them from (your) beds, and beat them. Then if they obey you, do not then commit excess on them. Verily, Allah is Most High, The Greatest.” (An-Nisaa’, Aayat 34)
The ‘beating’ permitted by the Qur’aan is explained in the Hadith as light beating and as a last resort. No one encourages beating wives. But to deny the validity of this Qur’aanic command is KUFR –kufr which expels one from the fold of Islam.
4 Zul Qa’dah 1444 – 25 May 2023
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